Bedtime Battles

We started perfecting our bedtime routine when Finn was just a baby. He didn’t sleep and was hard to settle but responded well to the familiar evening routine. It’s a fairly straitforward process of events: bath, snack, tooth brushing, stories and finally, bed.  We rarely stray from this game plan and both kids have responded well to the routine.

We have, however, begun to get some push-back from the kids, and I’m thinking we need to update our processes. They are asking to skip the bath, refusing to eat their usual bedtime snack, demanding instead to have goldfish crackers or, heaven forbid, cereal with milk (we just cleaned them up after all). They aren’t drinking their milk and are asking for “one more story”, or to skip the story altogether and watch a show instead.

And once they are settled into their beds, revised snack and additional stories behind them, we get the requests for drinks. But not just any drink, it has to be water. From the bathroom faucet. Nothing else will do. And they have to spill all over themselves, forcing a pajama change. Finally, about two hours after we end this nightly routine, or variation thereof, they fall asleep. I’m not sure how we will manage next year, when Finn starts bringing homework home and we have to add that to the mix.

One thought on “Bedtime Battles

  1. Just from babysitting my best friend's daughter, I realized quickly that the simple tasks we do for ourselves before bed, do not compare to the challenge we face with toddlers…it's a real workout, especially when you are faced with a high energy kid…you almost wish you could speed up time like in the Soap Operas when turn a 5 year old into a 15 year in a span of a day…like magic…wishful thinking I suppose.


Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s